the entire aristoteliean attitude of everything exists in a dichotomy really bugs me. I don't like it because I don't understand it, and the more I talk with people the more it seems like they don't udnerstand boundaries either. or at least not where the boundaries are.... anything that can't yet be reduced to mathematics, I think. relationships, personal space, politeness, happiness, honesty...
but they can be fun to play with. they can also be learning tools. try, for instance, this boundary game